Posts Tagged ‘Suffering’

The Care and Handling of the Ego

August 12th, 2011

‘Waking up’ includes the shift from the fiction the ego (self) is real, to the realization it is what ‘we’ get to defend as real in this fantasy called “reality.” If the ego can’t prove we are who we imPERSONate, then the question is, who exists to find that out? In the absence of people, being defended with the imaginary ego, it would have to be our old friend ‘the dreamer’ in this dream. Waking up includes the realization only ‘the dreamer’ in the dream exists to wake up, and only when the dream features that happening in the dream.

If mind is all there is, then right now is the dream mind is dreaming, featuring as “The Main Event” the imaginary ego defending the fiction it is a ‘real person’ in this dream. If mind is all there is, then ‘reality’ provides the setting for the imaginary ego to prolong the fiction it not only exists as a ‘real person,’ but suffering will prove it. If all of this can only be content in this dream mind is dreaming, then mind is dreaming ‘the dreamers’ creating duality as the prerequisite to suffering, since separation from that which is dreaming this dream isn’t possible. The dream features all the ways the imaginary ego creates duality, or the fiction of separation, to use suffering to do PERSONhood believably. » Read more: The Care and Handling of the Ego

Dealing with Duality

July 13th, 2011

When a dreamer in the dream is stuck in the fiction it is the person it is imPERSONating, reality manifests as ‘people defending the fiction the self is real’ and duality will prove it. In this dream, what defends this fiction is amnesia: it serves to separate the dreamer from the truth it is a dreamer in this dream so it can fill time defending the fiction it is the person it is imPERSONating. This is what the dreamers do in this dream. It isn’t good or bad, it is just standard content in this dream. If mind is the dreamer of this dream, which the dreamers, posing as people, refer to as “reality,” than the dreamer’s reliance on the fiction duality is real is “The Main Event” in this dream. The dream is always what ‘right now’ is, and it displays the intensity each dreamer brings to the fiction duality will work to prove it is the person it is imPERSONating. » Read more: Dealing with Duality

Another Look at Suffering

May 12th, 2011

There is a lot of suffering in the world. You don’t have to look too far to see it. If you suffer, you wonder why it occupies such a huge part of your life. You wonder what it would take to make it go away. Most people medicate — and learn to live with it, facing good and bad days. One day we are up and the next day we are down. One day we are happy, and suddenly, inexplicably, we are unhappy. We write this off as “mood swings,” and dismiss if as a “chemical imbalance.” The truth is, we not only live with suffering, we don’t want to know what suffering is all about. We avoid looking at the origin of suffering because we suspect, or almost know, that the exploration of suffering will take us places we avoid like the plague. » Read more: Another Look at Suffering

Everyone is Eligible to Wake Up!

January 10th, 2011

For over thirty five years I operated as a traditional psychologist, defending our preferred rendition of reality, the one we work as a team to keep in place as “the truth,” and then one day a friend introduced me to the writings of Wei Wu Wei, who deconstructed Buddhism to locate the core message, a message that is 180 degrees out of phase with what we insist reality is.

This core message states that what we refer to a “reality’ is a dream in progress, featuring all the ways the dreamers in this dream dismiss truth as false in order to defend the lie they are ‘real people’ in this dream. In this light, there is no one to know who is dreaming this dream, and the dreamers in this dream have assigned many names to the dreamer of this dream, settling, perhaps, on the concept of mind, a vast intelligence that is the dreamer of this dream, such that nothing exits outside of this dream. The dream is what right now is, and it displays where all the dreamers in this dream are with that fact, somewhere between awake, and one with the truth, to deep in a trance, filling time dismissing truth in order to defend the fiction right now is real and not a dream, and that all the dreamers in this dream are the people they insist they are. » Read more: Everyone is Eligible to Wake Up!

About Compassion

December 21st, 2010

The more you wake up, the more you realize compassion makes perfect sense. All the dreamers in this dream deserve compassion because they try so hard to prove they are people, and they can only be dreamers in this dream, defending the lie they are people. They deserve compassion because no dreamer can prove it is a person in this dream, and time accurately displays how invested we are in the fiction a dreamer in a dream can prove it is a person. It isn’t possible to make the impossible, possible. Go ahead, forgive your ‘self’ for trying.

Compassion comes into focus after you identify how you fill time defending the fiction what you do in the dream will prove you are a person, when it’s clear no dreamer in a dream can achieve that goal. The dream dictates that our status as a dreamer in this dream is a fixed fact. Everyone in this dream can only be a dreamer in this dream, displaying the intensity they bring to the fiction they can prove they are the person they impersonate. » Read more: About Compassion