Posts Tagged ‘Truth’

The Care and Handling of the Ego

August 12th, 2011

‘Waking up’ includes the shift from the fiction the ego (self) is real, to the realization it is what ‘we’ get to defend as real in this fantasy called “reality.” If the ego can’t prove we are who we imPERSONate, then the question is, who exists to find that out? In the absence of people, being defended with the imaginary ego, it would have to be our old friend ‘the dreamer’ in this dream. Waking up includes the realization only ‘the dreamer’ in the dream exists to wake up, and only when the dream features that happening in the dream.

If mind is all there is, then right now is the dream mind is dreaming, featuring as “The Main Event” the imaginary ego defending the fiction it is a ‘real person’ in this dream. If mind is all there is, then ‘reality’ provides the setting for the imaginary ego to prolong the fiction it not only exists as a ‘real person,’ but suffering will prove it. If all of this can only be content in this dream mind is dreaming, then mind is dreaming ‘the dreamers’ creating duality as the prerequisite to suffering, since separation from that which is dreaming this dream isn’t possible. The dream features all the ways the imaginary ego creates duality, or the fiction of separation, to use suffering to do PERSONhood believably. » Read more: The Care and Handling of the Ego

Dealing with Duality

July 13th, 2011

When a dreamer in the dream is stuck in the fiction it is the person it is imPERSONating, reality manifests as ‘people defending the fiction the self is real’ and duality will prove it. In this dream, what defends this fiction is amnesia: it serves to separate the dreamer from the truth it is a dreamer in this dream so it can fill time defending the fiction it is the person it is imPERSONating. This is what the dreamers do in this dream. It isn’t good or bad, it is just standard content in this dream. If mind is the dreamer of this dream, which the dreamers, posing as people, refer to as “reality,” than the dreamer’s reliance on the fiction duality is real is “The Main Event” in this dream. The dream is always what ‘right now’ is, and it displays the intensity each dreamer brings to the fiction duality will work to prove it is the person it is imPERSONating. » Read more: Dealing with Duality

Another Look at Suffering

May 12th, 2011

There is a lot of suffering in the world. You don’t have to look too far to see it. If you suffer, you wonder why it occupies such a huge part of your life. You wonder what it would take to make it go away. Most people medicate — and learn to live with it, facing good and bad days. One day we are up and the next day we are down. One day we are happy, and suddenly, inexplicably, we are unhappy. We write this off as “mood swings,” and dismiss if as a “chemical imbalance.” The truth is, we not only live with suffering, we don’t want to know what suffering is all about. We avoid looking at the origin of suffering because we suspect, or almost know, that the exploration of suffering will take us places we avoid like the plague. » Read more: Another Look at Suffering

A Look at the Lie List – Part Four

February 28th, 2011

Duality is mandatory if the dreamers in this mind generated charade are going to fill time ‘defending the lie they are people.’ No dreamer in this charade can defend that lie, convincingly, without the lie duality is real. Duality is the backbone of this charade. Amnesia shields the dreamer from the fact ‘everything can only be content in this mind generated dream.’ Without amnesia, the charade would collapse: it would be too obvious that truth is absolute, meaning not open to a vote. The last thing any dreamer in this charade wants to know is that nothing it does in the charade can prove it is a person. In this dream, this is ‘the secret’ we all share in common. No one is supposed to even allude to the possibility this is true. “Reality” is the dance we do to keep truth “out of sight and out of mind.” It makes for a fairly wild charade. » Read more: A Look at the Lie List – Part Four

A Look at The Lie List – Part Two

January 31st, 2011

I call the work I do “The Recovery Process.” Clients work with me because they are busy ‘seeking the truth,’ stuck in the fiction truth exists ‘to be found,’ or because a friend told them they worked with a guy who assisted them to reconfigure their understanding about reality, people, problems and suffering in particular. They already know that the work I do doesn’t comply with our standard definition of truth, but they are tired of suffering and they are willing to “try anything” if it will result in a reduction in their level of suffering. After working for over 35 years as a conventional psychotherapist, I slowly discovered, in spite of my own amnesia and resistance, why ‘change’ is, at best, cosmetic. As Wei Wu Wei put it, “if the premises are false, all our conclusions will be false.” » Read more: A Look at The Lie List – Part Two